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An Affirmation for Those Who Hurt

6/18/2014

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The undeniable truth is this:
     physical suffering is a condition of life on earth.
No one is forever exempt.
There is an affliction to illness and disease
     that narrows one’s vision 

and diminishes one’s vitality.
There is a wounding to physical trauma of all sorts
     that can hurt not just one’s body, 

             but one’s spirit as well.
There can be a torture 

to life-changing disablement
and an agony to life-threatening disease
that can darken one’s days 

and blacken one’s nights.
Yet I believe that suffering can be more than mere suffering,
And pain can be a pathway leading beyond itself
to something of abiding significance.


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 For that which hurts and limits
can be just as well
that which refines and instructs.
What is refined is one’s wisdom, one’s courage, one’s endurance.

What is instructed is one’s understanding of the
paradoxes of life:
what starts with breaking down can end with building up;
what originates with loss can terminate with gain;
what begins in fear can come to its conclusion with love.


And then times of aching can be turned into times of healing,
as struggle gives way to awareness and acceptance,
as limitation yields to a new sense of freedom and openness.
When that happens,
those who suffer can become those who are renewed,
and those who grieve can become those who are transformed.
I believe this not only can happen but it does happen.
I believe it happens here as easily as anywhere.
I believe it happens now as readily as any other time.
I believe it happens with a design and with a purpose all its own,
and it is not apart from us, but we are a part of it.
And we are a part of IT.

~James E. Miller

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      I'm the proud mother of two wonderful children, and the loving wife & caregiver of my husband, who suffered a catastrophic spinal cord injury during an ocean accident 10 years ago. I want to share our story and the profound impact it's had on our lives. I hope you will find my entries/blogs interesting, thought-provoking, and perhaps helpful should tragedy or hard-times every strike. 


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